Are Women Really More Attractive After A Breakup?
A psychologist says that it is normal to want to be more attractive after deception and / or breakup.
In some people, deception and / or disruption can act as electroshocks that bring about real change. This renewal can be embodied by a rather radical physical transformation (Coco Chanel is credited with the following quote: “A woman who cuts her hair is a woman who is about to change her life”) or by a “recovery”. in hand “significant. Many have already posted online selfie advantageous in order to rage an ex, no? Wanting to show off after experiencing infidelity is a normal reaction for Dr. Zoe Chouliara, a psychologist who works for the Click for Therapy support platform. It takes the case of women (but that does not mean that it is not true for men): from an evolutionary point of view, deception is to be preceded by adversity. Becoming more attractive is a way to “get one’s place in the dynamics of sexual attraction, which is based on competition,” and this is especially true if spouses have fought with a “younger or more beautiful” woman, d after the expert.
To Reclaim his Identity
“Getting ready more after a breakup or infidelity can be linked to feelings of guilt,” she told Metro. In other words, we change our look because we say that our partner would not have gone elsewhere if we had made sure to be more attractive in the first place (we agree: it’s not no matter what, the only person to blame is the unfaithful and no one else!). The makeover that is observed in some people can have many benefits: it is a way to move on and to appropriate again his identity. “It’s proof that the woman wants to come out of the ordeal and come to terms with her identity that she may have lost in part in the relationship. By changing the exterior aspect, we hope that it will have an impact on the interior, “concludes Zoe Chouliara. It is rather good news, therefore! And if it can in the process give rise to remorse in the person who betrayed us is that the bonus … The most important is to keep in mind that everyone deserves to be treated with respect. To your lipsticks and your smartphones, ladies!